Am I really nothing special to this Aquarius guy?

Seeing as we weren't there to see the situation play out, it's hard to say. But an Aquarius does not like to feel like they are tied down, and it seems like he probably feels that way. And it seems like he isn't trying to hurt your feelings. I know, Aquarius men can be a handful and a heartache. Are you a water or earth sign? Because that makes sense, a water sign would be offended at the lack of emotional regard, and the earth sign would be upset at the instability of the relationship.